Friday, September 13, 2013

Drama Free

Being a drama free woman will give you freedom to focus on things that bring peace and joy. www.only1touchoflove.blogspot.com

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

In The Corner

The boxer walking up to the ring for the biggest fight of his or her life has a theme song an a huge entourage. The boxer could have chosen anyone to walk that walk but didn't. He chose the people who would keep him encouraged through out the fight, as well as give him good advice during the fight. He chose the people that would help him win.

When choosing a life partner are you choosing someone who is going to help you win at life? Choose someone who bring you up and not down. Choose someone who you would not have to change or change you because that is extra work in a relationship that is not necessary. When choosing a life partner the criteria should not be only physical but what they value. hyped For example, a single woman with children will want someone who values children so that she knows the man will value her offspring.

Finding someone with the same goals in life is important. A person who has a goal of owning their own business does not want someone who does not value working, basically can't keep a job. The reason for desiring someone with the same values and goals in life is because this person will always be in your corner.When your life partner values and has the same goals as you they will encourage you in your endeavors. There will always be someone positive in your entourage and you will be in their corner.

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Don't Chase Love

There is nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man first, however there is a difference between approaching and desperation. The new generation of women is getting reputation of being "easy" and "desperate". Many men would say it is easy to get a woman in bed whether single or married. The reason: many women are chasing love.

Every woman wants the happily ever after, fairy tale, match made in heaven forever relationship. Waiting on that to happen is lonely. Unfortunately,loneliness causes some women to go the desperate route. When the women go out with their friends, it becomes more tempting to not just go out for fun, but for men. Desperation is a turn off to men but they are not going to tell a woman that secret.

Unfortunately, many men take advantage of women who are desperate for love by pretending to be in to them, getting them in bed, then leaving. Then the woman has even lower self-esteem, still desperate and lonely. The woman keeps repeating the cycle for months, maybe years, depending how long the relationships last with the men using the woman. Women have to not be to desperate for love
The way to approach a man without looking desperate is to be confident.The confident woman approaches a man but has control over the greeting. For example, the guy may ask if he can call or come over at midnight but she states no that's too late. She does not budge from her decision if he does not agree with it she walks away with confidence knowing she is worth more than a late night booty call. Standards should be set in the relationship from the beginning so the man knows just because the woman approached him, he can not get over on her.

Be confident. The confident woman knows her worth. The confident woman does not chase love but instead let's it chase her.

Be Thankful

The light bulb has finally cut on which is why I am able to write this blog. The things I understand and have been delivered from are what...