Don't Chase Love

There is nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man first, however there is a difference between approaching and desperation. The new generation of women is getting reputation of being "easy" and "desperate". Many men would say it is easy to get a woman in bed whether single or married. The reason: many women are chasing love.

Every woman wants the happily ever after, fairy tale, match made in heaven forever relationship. Waiting on that to happen is lonely. Unfortunately,loneliness causes some women to go the desperate route. When the women go out with their friends, it becomes more tempting to not just go out for fun, but for men. Desperation is a turn off to men but they are not going to tell a woman that secret.

Unfortunately, many men take advantage of women who are desperate for love by pretending to be in to them, getting them in bed, then leaving. Then the woman has even lower self-esteem, still desperate and lonely. The woman keeps repeating the cycle for months, maybe years, depending how long the relationships last with the men using the woman. Women have to not be to desperate for love
The way to approach a man without looking desperate is to be confident.The confident woman approaches a man but has control over the greeting. For example, the guy may ask if he can call or come over at midnight but she states no that's too late. She does not budge from her decision if he does not agree with it she walks away with confidence knowing she is worth more than a late night booty call. Standards should be set in the relationship from the beginning so the man knows just because the woman approached him, he can not get over on her.

Be confident. The confident woman knows her worth. The confident woman does not chase love but instead let's it chase her.