Chase The Heart, Not The Wallet

Many little girls dream of marrying their "Prince Charming" and living happily after. They dream he is going to be the perfect man and have all of his life in order. What if the perfect mans treats you great but there one thing missing? That one thing is money.

A man who provides is on every majority of women's wish list for a man. They want a man who can take care of himself, you and children if they are in the picture. Women think a man is strong physically and able to work long hours while they take care of the home. Yes, the woman will have her own career if she chooses but it is her choice. What if the man has all the qualities a woman wants but is broke? Is it better to drop him for a man with money but none of the other qualities?

Money comes and goes. The man with money could end up losing his source of income, then what? The woman is stuck with a man who brings nothing to the table and the she is stuck in a bad relationship. He might end up being dead beat dad and husband. She could end up depressed and losing herself because of chasing the wallet.

The man without the money could eventually start a new business and be successful. He could get a get job or a promotion after a few years. He could then tell you to quit your job and be a stay at home mom. He will then be able to invest back into you because he has a good heart. He will take care of you.

When you date a man for their heart and not a superficial reason, it will last longer. The relationship will be more real and will be able to last through anything. When him or you make a mistake it will be easier to forgive each other because the relationship will be deeper then what is on the surface.

One tip when dating a man with a good heart and a dream is to not rush the relationship. Don't let him just talk a good talk. He has to walk it out or at least be in the process of walking it out. For example, he could have a goal of starting his own business or going back to school. If he isn't already enrolled in school or in the process of getting paperwork in order to go, then a red flag should go up. If he isn't in the process of starting his own business life if he wants to start a clothing but doesn't have a design done, a red flag goes up. He should at least be selling t-shirts or something.

I'm not saying that all men with money are bad and all poor men are good. What I am saying is to be open to a man who isn't able to provide for you financially in the beginning of the relationship, especially if that is the only thing you don't like about him. Don't miss out on your blessing of a good man because of money. Chase the heart, not the wallet.