How to Be A Self-Controlled Wife

Being a wife is not easy. It is a role that takes a lot of patience and biting of the lip to keep from talking too much. However, sometimes my lip gets loose and starts moving so fast I don't realize it until after it has stopped. When my lip does that it forms words that I did not know existed in my mind. They are not curse words but hurtful words. If I am really upset my hand wants to join in the "fun" sometimes and start doing its own thing by slamming stuff around.

I have learned to train myself by letting love take over my heart. I take a moment to walk away then come back when I am ready to talk calmly. Sometimes, as women, we do not have to talk at all, but with our actions. Continue to show love to your husband even when he has made you upset, it will blow his mind. It takes a lot of self-control, faith and patience to do this. For example, your husband won't do something for you that you have been begging him to do. However, he keeps throwing his dirty clothes on the floor and all over the nice clean bedroom you just straightened up.

 Instead of yelling at him like you always do and get no results, try walking in the room without saying a word (and smile like you sincerely) then proceed to pick up his nasty clothes. After you get done give him a little peck on the cheek and a hug then walk out of the room. If it doesn't work the first time came keep doing it. Love never fails!