Monday, August 15, 2016

Why Do Men Leave?

This sounds good and everything but I hope men realize what they are signing up for when they say this. 

It takes unconditional God-fearing 1 Corinthians 13 to love someone with flaws and all. 
Look at what happened to Adam and Eve. Adam was perfect, had everything going for him but he wanted company. Eve messed up. She had a flaw. Adam joined her then blamed her instead of taking responsibility. Adam got in trouble because he listened to his wife and didn't take responsibility. He should have corrected her instead of listening to her and she should have submitted. 

Men have to take responsibility for the assignment of being a husband. It takes work to be married and the man is the head of the home. The woman has to learn to submit and listen. Sometimes when the woman doesn't submit or the couple doesn't see eye to eye and can be tough on the man. 

Yes, men are strong and can handle more emotional hurt then women but they need respect. If a man doesn't feel respected then it's hard for them to love. The man has to reach down and learn to love unconditionally, just how Jesus loves the church is how a husband should love his wife. However, a woman has to not be a nagging wife. Proverbs 21:19 says, "Better to live in a wilderness than with a nagging and hot-tempered wife." Wow! It's so annoying to have a wife that is always bossy, bad tempered or just nagging. It doesn't show the husband respect or submission; and it pushes the husband away. 

However, the husband has to and can get to the root of the wife's behavior. The wife might have some baggage that she is carrying around that she hasn't let go of yet and she is taking it out on her husband. The wife isn't doing this on purpose but subconsciously. If a husband isn't strong in who he is then this will push him away instead of him loving the mess out of her. How does he love the mess out of her? By washing her with the Word. God's word is filled with This is why it is important to be equally yoked and to understand the order of the family. 

In conclusion, men must be careful to say they will love a woman, flaws and all. The flaws may not be just physical but could be emotional. The man has to be strong spiritually to love a woman flaws and all.

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