3 Signs He Will Not Make A Good Husband

The number of divorces are rising and with social media on the rise, the dating scene can be very confusing. It seems like no one is looking for long term spousal material but for who ever they fall in love with the fastest. In order to have a long term marriage we have to get back to looking for those long term characteristics in a man. The woman has a right to say no to a marriage proposal if she feels unsure about whether he will make a good husband.

This blog provides 3 basic things to look for to determine if a man will make a good husband.

1. No goals or visions.

 As a wife we are to carry out the vision the husband lays down but if he doesn't have one, what do we do? It is important that a man have a vision for his life that a wife can help him carry out. It could be as simple as owning a family business or living debt free. But a man has to have something instead of blowing in the wind confused. This leads to living pay check to pay check for life. Where there is no vision the people perish. It is hard to have a successful life with out first getting a vision for it and setting goals. A good husband will have something to work toward.

2. Bad family relationships.

A man who doesn't have a good relationship with his mom or other children is not a good. If he doesn't have a good relationship his mother then he isn't going to treat you good. It is a proven that men love and honor their mothers. The mother-son relationship is a sign of how the son will treat his wife in the future.
If the man has other children that he doesn't get along with then he may not make a good husband. His children for some reason don't respect him enough to have a relationship with their dad. He has probably really hurt them or not have been a good example, more than once, in front of them. Remember, it takes a lot for a child to not want to come around their parent. A good husband will have good relationships with his family.

3. No relationship with God or different beliefs.

Having different religious views can be a big hassel in a marriage. The religious view of the household is the foundation of how it is run. If there are two different types of foundations then the house is going to eventually split apart. Having the same beliefs will keep the household as one foundation. If there is ever a disagreement, the foundation will have the final say. Take this into consideration when choosing a spouse. A good husband will have the same foundation as you do.