3 Immediate Signs He Isn't Into You

Know if he is really interested in you the first week of meeting.

Many of us females don't like wasting time talking to the wrong person to see if a relationship can grow, especially if you are looking for a serious relationship that can lead up to marriage. It's nice to know the signs within the first week to know if a guy wants your mind or just wants your body. I've have learned from experience the signs to know what a guy is really about.
I teach these to my daughter because she is about to go college. I don't want her to have to learn through trial and error.

1. If he ask to come over and not go out to date.

 The initial first date should not be done at each other's house but in a public location. It should be an atmosphere that talking can be done. Even going to the movie theater on the first date is a no, no unless he takes you eat before or after. You can't talk during the movie and usually it is physical contact during the movie, like hand holding or cuddling. Physical contact without a lot of communication before the first date is not a good sign.

2. If he text more than call. 

Texting is so vague and a lot of communication gets misunderstood because it's hard to know if a person is sincere through texting. When speaking with someone you can hear the tone of their voice for the sincerity of what they are saying. If majority of the time he wants to text then more than likely he doesn't care to be real with his feelings. He also doesn't care about yours. He should have at least two real conversations with you with in a week of meeting. If this doesn't happen, its not a good sign.

3. If he immediately talks about sex. 

If a man starts to talk about getting physical with in the first week, it should be a red flag. If the two conversations he has with are all about sex, than he isn't trying to get to know you better. The conversations should be about and him. He should take interest in what you are interested in, what do you do for a living, are you a Christian, etc. It's okay for him to ask what is your limitations on getting physical, like if he ask do you believe in pre-marital sex. BUT if starts talking about what he would do to you physically, then that's the only he has to offer you.

If you are looking for a serious relationship, set these boundaries for yourself. Don't let loneliness dictate your standards. Hold out for the right one. The right one will respect you for your boundaries and that will attract him even more to you. Don't settle.