Sex is everywhere for single people. It is easy access with the help of social media. Are single people the only ones who have sex? What happens to sex when people get married?
It seems like once people say I do, honeymoon for a few months, the sex is over. The sex can become like a chore instead of intimate enjoyment with the spouse like it was in the single days. When sex becomes like a chore in a marriage it will start to be boring and frustrating. The passion is lost.
Eventually the married couple will stop having sex. The temptation to get sex outside of marriage becomes strong.
How to keep sex in the marriage:
-Talk about needs and fantasies.
Likes and dislikes. However timing is everything. Do not wait until it is time to be intimate, talk about it before. Talking about is also a form of fore play to get in the mind set of having sex.
-Research.
There is nothing wrong with kinkiness in the bedroom while married. Single people should not be the only ones having wild sex especially since sex was created for married people as a form of intimacy to become one. Get kinky by researching positions and other options to bring to the table to spice up the mood.
-Change of environment, not the person.
Be spontaneous. After the kids are in bed and the spouse is watching television on the couch, get intimate in the living room. There is nothing wrong with having spontaneous to spice it with an anytime, anywhere attitude. Scheduling sex can sometimes kill the mood.
Last but not least enjoy. Enjoy each other's bodies. Enjoy the time spent together in a private moment, expressing the passion toward each other physically.
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